For many women who came to me, a photoshoot wasn’t really only about photos — it was about being seen. When you struggle with low self-esteem, the idea of standing in front of a camera (or rather – in front of the photographer) can feel overwhelming long before the session begins. And this is why I believe that in order to receive wonderful experience, we need to project your session, we need to talk about you, your fears and dreams. Then I can tailor my service to your needs.
You don’t need to feel confident or know how to pose. Well, let me tell you – preparation isn’t about fixing yourself, it’s about lowering the pressure, taking the weight away from your shoulders, because comfort matters more than confidence. And if you ask me – ‘posing’ people is my job, you don’t have to know any of it. I actually worked with professional models only twice during my entire (15 years) career.
The fear that shows up before a photoshoot is rarely about the camera itself — it’s often about thoughts like what if I look the way I feel inside, what if I’m judged, what if I disappoint myself — and these fears aren’t vanity, they’re vulnerability and deserve gentleness. You’re allowed to arrive nervous, quiet, or unsure, because a photoshoot doesn’t have to change how you see yourself to be meaningful; it’s not a performance, just a meeting. You are welcome as you are, because I want to guide you through every single step, I create for you this little world, in which you will feel safe and at the end – comfortable. You are safe with me 🙂
Boundaries however are part of preparation too — you can say what feels uncomfortable, ask questions, take breaks, and say no without explaining yourself, because safety never requires pushing through discomfort. Choosing clothes that feel familiar and gentle, rather than restrictive or corrective, helps you stay present instead of focused on “fixing” your body. You don’t need to lose weight, practice posing, force confidence, or pretend you’re ready — you’re allowed to come exactly as you are.
A photoshoot is not a test, there is no right way to look or feel, and the most meaningful moments often appear when pressure softens, not when you try harder. If you want one simple way to prepare, choose a small, gentle intention like wanting to feel safe or kind to yourself, because that is enough. You don’t need confidence, beauty, or readiness to book a photoshoot — sometimes the most important thing it offers isn’t a photo you love, but the experience of not being harsh with yourself, even for a moment.
Love,
Hanna
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